On her Facebook page, Charity describes herself as “indigenous woman, body worker, yogi, artist, belly dancer, tree hugger, mom to Eli, and wife of Ashley. She knows who she is and defines herself for all to see. Though she encompasses all of these titles, she is so much more.

We met up in the coffee shop at Beaufort Waterfront Park, where she arrived wearing a beautiful, colorful cape that looked like it was made from a menagerie of fabrics, pieced and sewn together to make something so striking. I learned Charity made it herself. She explained how she uses old clothes to bring new life to creations she crafts and sews together. This has become a passion she has turned into a fun, small business. She calls it “GrateFULL Threads Upcycled Clothing.

As a long-time hotelier family in Charleston, SC, and a 9th generation Charlestonian, tell us when your career in hospitality started?
I started working in the office with our accountant at age 7. I put bills and checks in numerical order. She’s been with us since 1980. I got bored in the office, so at age 10, I started working the front desk at Meeting Street Inn. I wanted to talk to people, greet everyone, and see our repeat guests who have been coming every year since before I was born. Now their children come and even grandchildren. We have one employee who worked at the hotel before my grandparents bought it. He’s still with us! I love working with so many of our longtime employees who have been with us 40 and 50 years and hearing their stories. We are about to celebrate 150 years in business. They are family to us, and they’ve become family to many of our guests, as well.

From a young age, Leanna McMillan wanted to be outside and learn all she could about nature.

Leanna was born and raised in Darlington, SC, a small town near Florence, SC, and left home to attend and earn a B.S. degree at Coastal Carolina University. She then moved to the Lowcountry in 2018 to be closer to her family in Savannah. Leanna’s job with Oldfield 1732, the sprawling, white-fenced community at the bend on 170, happened somewhat organically, pun intended. Her husband landed a job in Okatie, piquing Leanna’s interest in nearby Oldfield, a growing residential community with a serious commitment to the natural environment. “Oh, yeah,” said Leanna in a leisurely and charming Southern drawl. “I wanted that job!” One year later, Leanna accepted the position of Oldfield’s Staff Naturalist.

Janina Cushman, a resident of Hilton Head Plantation, said she could never live in a house without a garden. However, her idea of “a garden” certainly surpasses what most homeowners can imagine. Janina and her husband, Rob, moved from Wexford Plantation to their home three years ago. Janina said they looked at 40 homes before they found their gem—a totally private, large lot with tidal estuaries and marsh views. Rob said, “It was a palette with nothing on it, no color, just pine straw.” So, Janina worked on a plan with the help of a landscape designer.

“I wanted some hardscaping because it gives character. It’s been great fun,” she smiled. Stone walkways lead through the garden with two-feet high raised beds, constructed with light brown, stone bricks. Janina, who loves color, added. “The beds are as flower-filled as I can get them.”

Dawn Weaver’s life has always been one of giving care, loving others and relying upon her rock-solid faith. “I draw all my strength from the Lord. He will not abandon or forsake me,” she said. Dawn has certainly been tested, however. Her 34-year-old son, Jonathan suffered a traumatic brain injury as an infant has required 24-hour full care—feeding, bathing, dressing, everything—ever since.

“Jonathan is very verbal. He tells everyone, ‘I am unique because I am fearfully and wonderfully made by God.’” Dawn said he is sweet and captures everyone’s hearts. “I don’t let his limitations hold him back. I want him to get the fullest life, and I push him to his limits.” Everyone knows him fondly as “Scooby” because he has always loved to watch “Scooby Doo” cartoons. He has t-shirts, hoodies, shoes, and room décor with Scooby designs.

Pink: Tracy, congratulations on becoming Board Certified in Obesity Medicine! Can you share what it took to achieve this significant accreditation?
Dr. Blusewicz: Thank you! Board certification is no small feat. It involved extensive training, attending conferences, daily patient experiences, and studying rigorously for a comprehensive exam. Balancing this with my full-time Gynecology practice, Med Spa, research projects, and global engagements was challenging, but the expanding field of Obesity Medicine, with its successful options for patients, motivated me to persevere. The 4-hour board certification exam was one of the most complex I've taken. I actually cried tears of joy when I passed!

Chelsea Ackerman met up with me at Lowcountry Cider and Coffee shop on a blustery, cold Saturday morning. She’s a young mother of an almost 5-year-old and a 1-year-old, so her wonderful husband, Johnathan kept them at home for our interview. A cute blonde, with a quick smile, she arrived early, texting me for confirmation.

Chelsea was born with a rare congenital heart condition. It’s called transposition of great arteries, in which the two main arteries are somehow switched from where they should be. At birth, she spent several weeks in the Medical University of South Carolina hospital (MUSC), while doctors considered heart surgery, but decided on a “wait and see” approach instead. She says she’s had cardiologist appointments all her life, and other than a few fainting spells, grew up perfectly normal. She was an active cheerleader in her high school years and met her husband in high school. They dated for ten years and have been married for seven.

When it comes to class reunions, many of us are hesitant. However, Elizabeth Huggins is all about it as a member of the Class of 1991 at the University of Texas (UT) in Austin. She was a UT cheerleader from 1987-1990, leaving her Saturday sideline gig her senior year for a necessary internship in her nutrition major.

Elizabeth had no cheerleading experience prior to college. She was a gymnast—and a shy one, at that. A serendipitous moment became a game-changer when she was working out in the same gym as the cheerleading squad. She saw them stunting, which spelled F.U.N. to her. With her petite size, acrobatic background, and adorable personality, she was a shoo-in to make the squad.

Bahar Matin-Azad grew up in a loving family in Iran but longed to be free and independent. The patriarchal culture of Iran squashed all opportunities for her to grow into the woman she wished to be. (Even today, Iranian women experience discrimination deeply impacting their lives, particularly with regard to marriage, divorce, and custody issues. Wearing a hijab is compulsory and women are not permitted to travel abroad without their
husbands’ permission.

So, when a distant relative realized Bahar was a great catch, she played matchmaker and told her son, who was living in Canada, he needed to meet her. He came to Iran, and they liked each other. Bahar hoped that because he was educated and financially secure, her life would be better than what she experienced in Iran. “I had a fantasy that he would take me to another world where I could be independent and have a better life for our future children,” she said.

You have followed in the footsteps of three generations of men by becoming a licensed builder. How did your family react when you stepped into the traditional men’s world of construction?
My mother and my grandmother worked in the industry with my father and grandfather, so it is very special to me to be carrying on the whole family’s legacy in a new way, and in a new part of the country. My grandfather passed away before I was licensed, and my grandmother tragically slipped into dementia, but growing up they always supported me.

Debby Grahl developed a passion and talent for storytelling at a young age.

As a child, Debby experienced problems with her vision and was a slow reader. Debby was diagnosed with Retinitis Pigmentosa (RP), a rare genetic and degenerative eye disease with no cure. While growing up in Michigan, she began making up stories to entertain herself and her friends around the age of 13. She lost her ability to see print in her early twenties, but her medical condition hasn’t deterred her from sharing her romantic mystery stories with many happy readers.

In March of 2020, Leah McCarthy, owner of Downtown Catering Company, was at the pinnacle of success. “I was at the height of my business—successful, a high achiever, caring for both my mother, who had dementia, and three kids. Then my life fell apart.”

The Covid pandemic struck America like a sledgehammer. Events were cancelled, schools were closed, and kids transitioned to online learning. Churches held virtual services, and funerals were suspended. The hospitality industry was hit especially hard, and Downtown Catering Company was no exception.

“You will succeed if you persevere; and you will find joy in overcoming obstacles. –Helen Keller

What makes a champion? Is it skill? Drive? Hard work? For Maria Francescotti it is all of these mixed with tremendous discipline and perseverance. At age 16, Maria is a champion swimmer. Not only does she strictly adhere to proper nutrition, train diligently, and love to compete, she does it all even though she was born with Poland Syndrome and Symbrachydactyly.

Poland Syndrome is a condition where someone is born with missing or underdeveloped chest muscles. In addition, they may have webbed or fused fingers as another sign of the condition (WebMD.com). According to stanfordchildrens.org, Symbrachydactyly occurs when an arm or hand does not develop completely. Sometimes, one hand may be smaller than the other. Both Poland Syndrome and Symbrachydactyly happen as the fetus is developing in the mother’s womb. In Maria’s case, her right arm, upper chest, shoulder, and right hand are affected. However, her conditions have never stopped her from reaching her goals.

Tell us how your passion to serve others started?
My passion to serve others started with my grandmother, Lucinda Moore. She was a loving women of God who opened her home to many children in the community. She lived in the city of Hampton, SC. There was a local park behind her house where all the kids came over for meals and snacks because they knew she would take care of them. She treated them all like her own. She taught me how to love unconditionally and share no matter if it was a lot or a little. I remember her making homemade quilts, fruit cakes, and pound and sour cream cakes for everyone—siblings, children, grandchildren, and church members.

Susan Rafetto has found her dream job.

A self-declared free spirit, Susan moved to the Lowcountry from City Center Philadelphia in 2019. She lost her job there as a property manager when the company was sold. Without an obvious Plan B, Susan followed her younger daughter and son-in-law to Hilton Head. “I thought, ‘Maybe this is a window opening for me,’” said Susan. “I decided to take a leap.” Little did she know that her decision would renew a childhood passion that would soon lead to a new and rewarding career.

I was so lucky to be invited to meet MeMe in person, the Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube star! Her formal name is Diane Altman Leary, and I caught up with her when she was visiting down in Okatie for the weekend with her daughter Katrina and son-in-law. Since she truly looks like a MeMe, I’ll just call her that, instead of Diane, or Mrs. Leary, and I know she won’t mind. She is a beautiful, petite lady in her 80s, with every hair in place, full makeup, and a cute pink top. Katrina looks like her mom, and they welcomed me in, of course, through the kitchen!

Cheryl Fields is used to routines. The Beaufort-area mother of seven children would not survive long without them. But nothing was routine about the screening mammogram she had last year at the Beaufort Memorial Breast Health Center.

The then 42-year-old felt fine when she arrived for her annual appointment. Following her screening mammogram, she waited patiently in the dressing room for the “all-clear" from the radiologist. She never expected she would be asked to undergo a breast ultrasound to get a closer look at some suspicious areas.

Tell us how your passion for dancing began? I began dancing at the age of 2! My older sister, DJ, was put into a dance class, and I would sit and cry at the door until they finally let me into the room. I went into that dance class, and the rest is history! 

What are some of the obstacles you have overcome to achieve your goals in dance?
My biggest obstacle I had to overcome was in October of 2017 when I had bilateral hip surgery. It was a big challenge physically but mostly emotionally. Having my dancing, which is something I had done every day since I was able to walk, taken away from me for months was so hard to accept. I had every reason to give up or quit, but I knew deep down that was never an option. I was meant to be a dancer and nothing was getting in the way of it.

Helen had just finished a full day of teaching school, and after meeting up with the Pink Magazine photographer at the Waterfront Park, she sat down with me with an iced tea. She looked fresh as a daisy, with a pretty matching necklace and earrings set, long Jennifer Anniston blonde hair, and a royal blue blouse.

Helen teaches 4th and 5th grade Special Ed students at nearby Beaufort Elementary. This is her second year there, after transferring down to the coast from the Upstate. She is an independent woman, not married, but has two grown children, Jonathan Watson and Victoria Johns-Paradise and two granddaughters. She is energetic and passionate about teaching, and it comes through in other areas of her life as well.

Traci Sampson is relatively new to the Lowcountry. She moved to Hilton Head in December 2022 but previously vacationed here for many years. Born and raised in Charleston, West Virginia, Traci attended college in Pennsylvania and later married and moved to Chicago where she raised three kids – Chloe (now 27), Andrew (25), and Scott (21) – with her husband, Neal. Traci was a full-time mom, while Neal worked as a futures and options currency trader.

The 2008 financial crisis brought hardship to most families, and the Sampsons were no different. The financial markets became very volatile as many migrated to online trading. Neal’s demeanor began to change as a result of market turmoil. He began trading at home, stopped going into the office, and instead became reclusive, avoiding social interaction.

Jane Rhodes is the very definition of Southern charm--sweet, polite, and respectful. “I’ve been taught to say ‘Ma’am’ my whole life.” Jane is 15 years old, lives on a farm in Brunson, SC, in Hampton County, and attends Thomas Heyward Academy. She loves living on the farm. “Nature can be everything, and I can be around it all.”

At age 5 or 6, Jane started hunting for duck, doves, turkey and deer with her father, Scott. She bagged her first turkey when she was 7 years old, and she’s gotten at least one every year since, not an easy feat. “I love doing stuff with Dad. My friends don’t really like fishing or hunting. I’m a Daddy’s girl. I guess I’m a Tomboy, but I’m really a mix because I can be pretty girly when I want to be.”

You are a Daufuskie Island Native. Tell us why your history is so special to you?
I am a sixth generation born native from a beautiful and special Island—“Dawfuskie.” Besides being my birthplace, this place is my history that will always be within me. As a born native you don’t just love the Island, you are a part of the Island. As a descendent, I am not just Gullah on my grandfather’s side, I am also part native American Indian on my grandmother’s side—two very strong-willed cultures I am proud of. My history is my identity of people long before I knew myself. I embrace it with all I can do to help preserve it, so generations to come will know and appreciate their heritage.

Annelore Harrell has been writing a weekly newspaper column called “SOMETIMES” for 23 years. She’s a well-loved storyteller, but even after winning the award for best in her category from the SC Press Association, she finds it difficult to believe the popularity of her columns.

Her father, Martin Stelljes, a jeweler and certified master watchmaker, immigrated to the United States in 1923 with little more than his work tools. He was 21 years old and only knew a few words of English, but he was optimistic and determined. Martin worked for Desbouillons Jewelers in Savannah, became an American citizen, and returned to Germany in May 1931, where he met Anni Dönselmann-Theile. Always the romantic, he proposed after taking her for a bicycle ride and walk. They married in September, honeymooned in Heidelberg, and by Christmas were living with Martin’s aunt and uncle in a depressing apartment in Savannah’s Old Fort. Twenty-one-year-old Anni, now called Anna, was pregnant, spoke no English, and was more than a little homesick.

Marie and her husband Tom have been in the restaurant business for the past 40 years. They started their first Alvin Ord’s location in downtown Beaufort on West Street. Their friend, Bruce Whitney dressed in a monk’s outfit sewn by Marie’s mom and passed out sandwich samples up and down Bay Street. This unusual opening must have worked! They’ve been blessed ever since.

The original Alvin Ord’s began in Texas, and actually the man who started the sandwiches, Alvin Ord Johnson, left in 1971 to become a monk. Hence the many bald-headed friars and monk statues and pictures in the business.

Beth Henzler and her husband, Matt, have five dogs and two cats, and thankfully, a large fenced-in yard. Six of the these furry friends are rescue animals. One of her cats was found hidden in a car engine and rescued at Sam’s Club; the other cat just appeared around her home and never left. Beth and Matt rescued four dogs. Beth said she “will rescue almost anything.” Memorial Day this year, she proved it, when she decided to adopt a feral dog called Sunny.

“We’re foster failures,” Beth laughed. When it comes to rescues she said there’s not even six degrees of separation. “We know people who know people, and we asked to foster Sunny for a while, and as I said, we’re foster failures and adopted Sunny.”

“At the end of the day, it's not about what you have, or even what you have accomplished… it's about who you've lifted up, who you’ve made better. It’s about what you've given back.”
- Denzel Washington

Lillie Varner can simply be described as a steadfast, philanthropic, hospitable woman. Still walking the walk and talking the talk at 94 years old, Lillie has brought growth and kindness into others’ lives, following her heart which bleeds for God and her community, no matter where she is in life.

Some may say Kai Patterson is her own most enthusiastic cheerleader. Well, that's important when you decide to go all in and dedicate yourself to the world of competitive cheerleading. Kai started cheering when she was still toddling around learning her ABCs. With a love for tumbling and a spirited personality, she was destined to feel at home on a cheering squad. But people began to notice her exceptional skills and athleticism and encouraged her to up her game. Now, after a lifetime of hard work, dedication and sacrifice, Kai can be found at the top of the pyramid--a two-time world champion! 

In 2014 Maggie Creeden was 21 years old and a senior at the University of South Carolina in Columbia studying hospitality management. She was enjoying college—USC’s really good year of football, her sorority, Delta Zeta, and being involved in “senior things.” Maggie was excited to graduate and start the next phase of her life.

She got an upper respiratory infection and the doctor told her the lump in her neck was an enlarged lymph node due to the infection, and it was fine. He put her on antibiotics. When her mother noticed the large lump on Maggie’s neck, she and Maggie luckily decided to get a second opinion. The new doctor said, “Trust me, that lymph node is not normal.” She was in kidney failure. Her creatinine level was 11 and should have been .06. Her kidneys were functioning at only 16 percent.

Vivian Urriola is an athlete. Her sport: Wrestling. She is a member of the Reverence Wrestling Club in Bluffton and a rising freshman at May River High School. Vivian was one of five Beaufort County female youth wrestlers who competed at the Southeast Regionals Tournament hosted by USA Wrestling in Cherokee, NC. This competition was a qualifying tournament for the 2023 US Marine Corps Junior and 16U Nationals, a national Freestyle and Greco tournament held every year in Fargo, ND. Vivian competed in the 16U, 117 pound class and is the only female at Reverence Wrestling Club who competed in both Freestyle and Greco Roman wrestling. She won first place in Freestyle and came in second place in Greco. These wins were her ticket to Fargo.

Morgan Smith began volunteering with the Special Olympics in the sixth grade.

Her introduction to volunteerism began in an untraditional way. Born and raised in Hilton Head, Morgan had difficulty making friends in elementary school. She arrived early on her first day of middle school and met Kathy Cramer, a special education teacher. Morgan watched from the curb as Kathy unloaded some equipment from her car. Kathy asked Morgan to help her. They unloaded the equipment, and Morgan then helped Kathy's students as they got off the bus. “All of these kids wanted to be my friend! I felt included and welcomed,” said Morgan. From that day forward, Morgan helped Kathy and those children with intellectual disabilities each and every day until she went to college. Little did she know that her chance meeting would later lead to the rewarding career she now loves.